Challenge/a way to create confidence

For the most of the time, we felt threatened by other people.

A beautiful woman, a better position in work, a hot man, a bigger house, a rich life, a beautiful & smart child….ect.

And what happened afterwards, we started to look down to ourselves and convince we are about to lose our happiness, just the time matter.

There is a way to redefine your confidence status which is simple but we always turn that down cause of the fear for failure.

Try to ask yourself for a question:

You always want a better position because you believe it’s a method to somehow make your life better. (of course when your pay is better and everyone starts to look up to you..)

Honestly how many times you turned it down with the thought that I might fail so….nope sorry…I prefer to stay In this comfort environment which keeps me away from the risk of being a loser.

I felt this when I got promotion (which the pay is not more…in fact I have a plenty stuff to do and responsibility to carry on…)

Surely that I know it’s such a great opportunity because it’s something I finally can let my wigs fly out without limitation.

Most importantly, it’s an opportunity which I can concentrate which I had studied for.

I am allowed to make my idea vivid in reality.

I almost gave up, and think to do as fly attendant such job to get away my dream come true moment.

At the end, I took this chance.

And today is my very first day to consult designers.

To focus on my future, and also to continue my project which always points out a special point: to try something new in your life.

and I must confess that I read a book called The Tools which I mentioned on my article motivation/

It says we normally created a comfort zone which it’s a situation we created by our weak mind to escape from all the risks which make us like fool or loser.

A lover, an addicted behavior, a stable life, being lost…ect.

I reviewed my 27 years life, and our of surprise, I found which I am a quitter.

I quite all the time even for what I had desired for so much in the past, but when it came to the point to prove myself…I gave up because I was so afraid that I might fail..and all my efforts which I put out through would be a waste.

That is the main reason which I took my job, although I have to say Fuck its super hard to challenge myself with the third language and I know deeply that I am still lack of experience.

Well, today I had a meeting with one of our fashion designer who had worked for a big brand for so many years.

I am forced to discuss the designs she made, and also to talk to her husband & partner regarding the marketing strategy.