Superwowen

It's been the third news I reviewed on the yahoo.tw recently.
These women who failed their marriage had something in common:

• Tough
• high income, career
• aggresive

Before I was wondering, how come their husbands just can't accept the truth that their wives are powerful than them.
Why they can't just be more understanding..ect

Until I saw an interview on the show of one of these women, I understood how their marriage failed.

The point is self-central , which they have this in common and this is the reason their relationship doomed.

They think everything directly for their benefits.
That their husbands have more and more limits by these women get  higher postition in job.
They can't live the life they want because women are not allowing them.

No matter your a woman or a man , you have to respect the life that your lover wants. this is the key point to continue being together.

If you only think of the life you want, of course you will never imagine or try to understand what kind of life your other half wants.

He  will not be allowed either to search for their dream life.
Because no matter they are good or bad, there is alwasy something wrong.
There is always somehting wrong because it's never be your expectation.

And these women got frustrated and wondered: how come he never understands me..or try to understand me.
He doesn't know how much I will be hurt?

Just let go, no one will ever know what kind of life you want. If you keep thinking only your dream life, no matter how much he will offer, you wont find it enough.

Leave some space in your head and mind that if you are ready to love someone, you must respect the life he wants.

You have to let go the spotlight and be happy if the spotlight can be lighted on someone you love.

If you still enjoy for all the attention and spotlight, then please do not fall in love easily.
Because you will be shocked how come it can last only this short.

I had been there , even though I am not a superwan, but I wanted to be the only spotlight in a relationship.
Therefore, never ends with good result.

Practicing to not enjoying the spolight, a real person shouldnt care too much that is there someone paying attention on you or not.

The thing only matters to me is my life even I will fall in love again.
His life, it matters to me when he asks for help , because he is the only director in his movie.


To all the superwomen:
keep lighting your life in your way but let people around you has the right to enjoy their own spotlights.

Cheers!